Victim's Options: Overview
What are a victim's options when suddenly threatened by a predator? "Fight or flight” are the two most well known. Martial arts' theory usually adds surrender to the mix. I’ve added two more: outsmart and posture, and aligned them all with FBI victim guidelines (and also clarified their clunky terminology): 
1. Posturing: presenting yourself as a tough target (predators prefer easy prey). If that doesn’t work: 2. Fleeing, the most obvious choice, might not be possible. If not: 3. Outsmarting: by verbally defusing a confrontation and maneuvering toward escape. If that doesn’t work: 4. Surrendering and hoping for the best; or preferably as a prelude to an escape, perhaps aided by: 5. Fighting like a mad dog to enable your escape. Stun & run.
It’s impossible to fully anticipate the panicky chaos of a sudden threat forcing you to choose among a victim's options in a split-second. Nonetheless, understanding your options now will help your Intuition choose an option then. Face-to-Face Factors • Your wariness: using a cell phone or headphones, or daydreaming, is like a lame antelope attracting a lion. • The type of assailant: is he a scared yet volatile kid, a depraved lunatic, or somewhere in between? • The presence of a weapon or an accomplice: neither may be visible at first. • The location: populated areas might inhibit him. And, is it your turf or his? Familiarity makes a difference. • Your personality: can a passive person be aggressive? Can an aggressive person surrender (or fake it)? • Your abilities to strategize and fight. • Your willingness to truly fight for your life – and to never give up.
Five Options for You in a Violent Crime & Personal Safety Devices
You should expect intimidating threats and expect to be hurt, but should especially expect to survive (see Hope is Key in Stress Control - Willpower). Opportunities may arise as the scene unfolds. A victim must trust her Intuition to choose among the five options:• Your 5 Options - Overview (YOU’RE NOW ON THIS PAGE). • 1st Option - Posturing: presenting yourself as a tough target (predators prefer easy prey). If that doesn’t work: • 2nd Option - Fleeing, the most obvious choice, might not be possible. If not: • 3rd Option - Outsmarting: by verbally defusing a confrontation and maneuvering toward escape. If that doesn’t work: • 4th Option - Surrendering: as a prelude to an escape, perhaps aided by: • 5th Option - Fighting like a mad dog to enable your escape. Stun & run. • Recap of this section.
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