Here's what crime victims can teach you about college security – and how to sidestep the hidden dangers.
Most college students love the social life but for some it's a nightmare. Sexual assaults are often ignored as misunderstandings best forgotten and are often not reported to police. The young women either carry on at school, or worse, leave defeated by a culture that downplays crime. Boys who are intelligent, rational, caring, and supportive of women will still protect one of their friends. And girls tend to not report because these men are acquaintances.
Her parents started an organization, Security on Campus, to force schools to disclose all crime on campus so students – and their parents – will be forewarned. In 1990, Congress passed the Jeanne Clery Act.
But campus disciplinary programs are not a court of law for acquaintance-rape cases and cannot mete out justice. Many women are unhappy with the result and end up leaving school.
Because it's hard to sort out the truth of conflicting claims, schools emphasize prevention. The most effective programs get students talking about the risks of drinking and the meaning of consent.
See www.SecurityOnCampus.org to help you choose a safer school or be more aware of the risks at the school you're attending. But even with Full Disclosure laws, you can still be unaware of UN-disclosed:
Sex offenders are legally required to register at the local sheriff's office about their enrollment in colleges. The sheriff is then supposed to notify college police. But that never happened. When campus police know sex offenders are enrolled, they notify faculty and staff, but students are generally not told unless incidents occur.
Why does the school wait until AFTER another "incident" before telling you that a schoolmate is a registered sex offender? That's putting you at increased risk without you knowing it – gambling with unknowing students as unwitting guinea pigs. Unlike the general public, a schoolmate has easier access to you. Apparently, the school thinks a registered sex offender's right to privacy outweighs your right to know you’re in danger. How’s that for campus safety?
Campuses can lull you into a false sense of security. Some security officers pound on dorm room doors at dawn to remind students of their vulnerability. They find many doors unlocked despite hallway signs reminding students to lock their doors.
Police say many students talk on their cell phones or listen to music through ear buds while walking alone – distracted and oblivious to their surroundings. And they'll post personal information on social networking sites.
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In the late 1960’s, John Norman Collins, a handsome, University of Michigan Ann Arbor college student, went to parks to meet young women and take them for motorcycle rides. He tortured and murdered them all. Yet today young women still often meet handsome young men and go wandering off with them. A chance encounter may quickly become an impromptu date with the woman too enthralled to think about security. That is precisely what predators count on.College applicants don't receive psychological screening, but experts say that no reliable tests that predict criminal behavior, anyway. It's a mistake to assume that a college student is somehow less likely to rape. Social status has very little to do with sex crimes.
From the rape-prone man's perspective, sex is a game, and women who say "no" don't really mean it. The man probably had dates in which a woman initially said "no" then changed her mind. Thus, she’s just saying “no” so she won’t appear “easy.”
Most offenders don't see crying as saying “no.” Some offenders feel ashamed afterward and swear they’ll reform. Other offenders believe that's how sex works and they keep getting away with it. That's one reason women must report their rapes.