A predator's #1 warning sign is trying to get near you or isolate you. THAT'S your tip-off! This page shows how predators got near and isolated their prey.
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Vivian had always carefully followed all the home security rules and was certain nothing would harm her. And she was mostly right... except for one little thing... She didn't know that the previous owner had given a key to the next-door neighbor and forgotten about it hanging in the neighbor’s kitchen. But the neighbor’s cousin didn’t forget when he saw Vivian moving in. And the neighbor didn't notice when the key disappeared...
The cousin’s arrest revealed that Vivian’s real-life nightmare never would've struck had she simply changed the door-locks when she’d first moved into her home. Sometimes the littlest things....
• Have a locksmith re-key the door locks (reset the tumblers) when you first move into a home, or if ever you lose a key.
• Never put ID tags on keys hoping some kind soul will return lost keys to you – the finder may not be a kind soul.
• Don't hang keys on hooks in plain view inside your home – any visitor can steal them.
• Treat your keys like gold. Clever criminals can quickly make copies. Even hairdressers have made copies for partners while a client is preoccupied.
• Give mechanics and parking valets your car keys only, never your house keys.
Everyone knows the common “secret” hiding spots for keys, such as under the doormat or on top of the doorframe. Get a Keyless Fingerprint or Touch-pad deadbolt lock (see Lock Bumping). Tell a friend or repairman the secret code to allow temporary access then change the code afterward.
Consider ALL telemarketers, telephone surveys, promotions, and other pests – in fact, ANY strangers invading your home through your phone line – to be either dishonest scams or even burglars looking for strategic information to breach your home security. Say one thing only: "Please do not call this number again. Thank you." Then hang up.
Contact the National Do Not Call Registry at www.donotcall.gov. Also beware of scammers calling you and claiming to represent do-not-call registries and requesting personal information.
A single woman should have an unlisted number, Caller ID with Call Block of unidentified calls, and screen her calls with a phone answering machine. The “greeting” should say only, “Hello. This is (your phone number). Please leave your message. Thanks.”
Also see 911 Calls: how to do it right.
And to think that you invited him in!
• Donald Wilcox and Mitchell Mavoides used the Parkers anniversary announcement in the Texas paper to hunt them down, rob, and kill them.
• In New Mexico, a man pretended he was interested in buying a home for sale, pulled a gun, and looted the house.
• In Boston, a man came with a polite smile, casually elegant attire, and curious questions about the house for sale. He pulled a knife and raped the homeowner.
• Katherine Ann Olson went to Michael John Anderson’s Minneapolis home for a baby-sitting job posted on Craigslist. He murdered her.
• A California college student was murdered after she met a paroled sex offender on Craigslist.
• A Philadelphia man raped six women he met on the dating site Match.com.
• Harley Tapp had seen the man at his yard sale several days before. The man returned when no other customers were present and lured Tapp into the garage by asking for items kept there. As Tapp reached up to get an item, the man grabbed a nearby hatchet and struck Tapp eight times.
• Responding to a woman’s newspaper want-ad to sell a used wedding dress, a man claiming to be a theatrical costume designer pulled a gun and raped her. The police said clothing want-ads were his specialty.
People are often robbed and/or raped by predators posing as buyers or sellers on the Internet or through a newspaper classified ad. Naïve sellers willingly invite strangers into their homes to inspect items for sale. Naïve buyers willingly take cash to parking lots or unoccupied homes. Naïve prey make it SO easy for predators.
Criminals read your want-ads, home-for-sale, obituary notices, wedding announcements, etc. to target you. They also place lures in newspaper want-ads and on websites such as Craigslist to meet, isolate, and trap you.
ONE POSSIBLE SOLUTION for home-based sales is to have friends or neighbors nearby – but not too near (so they can always get away to call police) whenever a stranger is visiting you – any stranger (females or even kids often work with male predators). This ruins a criminal’s anonymity and isolation advantages and will deter many such criminals.
• Tanner Green killed Janice Vredenburg in her Wichita home. His job as a repairman gave him access to her home in a tranquil neighborhood where people felt safe from crime. His employer had never checked his extensive criminal record for predatory violence.
• Paul Williford, a Tulsa World newspaper deliveryman, raped and killed two women on his delivery route. His employer had never checked his record as a prison parolee for felony assault. Williford gained access to a victim’s homes by purposely not delivering her paper so that she would call him to ask for it. When she called, he’d deliver the paper and gain entry.
• Sue Weaver called for an air conditioning repairman from a well-known Florida company. He cleaned Weaver's air ducts, then returned to rape and kill her. His employer never checked his background as a convicted sex offender.
• 10-year-old Joshua Bryant and his 77-year-old grandmother Lillian Martin were killed by an electrician who had performed work earlier in their home. His employer had never checked his extensive criminal record for predatory violence.
Even big companies and employment agencies rarely conduct criminal background checks on their employees. Keep your valuables hidden and check for home security breaches after they leave, in case someone unlocked a window or door.
• Seven Scarsdale NY gang members invaded a home and bound and robbed the homeowners and their teenage daughter at gunpoint. The gunmen burst in after a female accomplice pretended to be lost and in need of help. The gang’s ringleader had done landscaping work in the area.
• Johnny Cerda operated a Freeport NY landscaping company, but also set up his clientele for violent robberies. He gave members of his robbery crew the names and addresses of his customers he believed had cash and jewelry.
• Ruthell Williams hired Keith Land as a handyman for work on her Long Island home. Land burglarized and bashed in her head when Williams awoke and confronted him. She was unaware that Land was a violent career criminal with a lengthy prison record. It's a fact easily discovered by typing his name into the state's Corrections Department website.
• Juan Stephan McCray entered the home of an 83-year-old woman and her 94-year-old husband, and beat the woman so badly that she underwent brain surgery. McCray, a paroled felon with a long record of violent crime, is married to a home health care worker caring for the elderly man, who had been incapacitated by a stroke.
Thoroughly check out baby-sitters, nannies, gardeners, cleaners, AND their helpers - in short, anyone you allow into your home. Fugitives often apply for domestic jobs to avoid scrutiny. Check references with local police at his/her past addresses. Check a moving company's references with the Better Business Bureau at www.BBB.org (though most moving companies do NOT screen their employees) . See Child Safety - Safeguarding for babysitter screening.
FamilyWatchdog.us shows the registered sex offenders living in your area. However, since rapists average 7 victims before their first arrest, and child molesters average 107 victims before their first arrest – many won’t be on the maps yet. And remember that sex offenders may prowl outside their neighborhood, or are homeless, OR – as 24 percent do nationwide – assume false identities and disappear (maybe into your area).
There are many other criminals who aren't sex offenders – thus aren't on that list. Remember that more than 600,000 felons are released from prison each year – and don't forget all the other up-and-coming young predators who haven't been arrested yet.
Suspicious signs include excessive postage or wrapping, stains or odors (some explosives smell like almond or marzipan), is lopsided or lumpy, seems to contain a powdery substance, or marked as “Personal” or “Confidential.” Businesses usually don’t use handwritten labels. If you’re suspicious, do not touch it, open doors and windows (to minimize the effects of a blast), leave the vicinity and keep others out, then call the police.
I'ves classified all home intrusions into five types so you can more easily understand home defense. To add to the familiar police terms of Break-In, Walk-In, and Push-In, I’ve created two new categories: Scam-In and Mug-In – as shown below:
• Break-In: most homes are easy to invade. Learn what burglars hunt for.
• Walk-In: half of all home intrusions are through unlocked doors!
• Push-In: blindly opening the door if someone knocks. Better to use an intercom.
• Scam-In: believing a stranger's clever scam and opening your door, even an inch - see Push-In above.
• Mug-In: how to avoid being ambushed outside your home and forced in.
Predators like to prowl where the prey least expect them. Protect your home security even if you live in Sleepy Valley.
Make sure all your family members use these home defense strategies. Predators will always find prey – but the most cautious targets will be spared.